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The path, way to your heaven

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Currently everyone is experiencing their own reality in their own space as well as what is happening in the collective consciousness of the world.

Beneath the surface of what seems to be a world wide pandemic, what is happening? Or perhaps a more important question is what is happening to you? After all what you see is what you are, you are the world and world is you.

Though it may not have been realised by the mass before, you are thinking, living and creating your own choices. Perhaps this time in hand, is so perfect to bravely walk that much dreaded path. It may seem lonely but at the end of it, its your true-self waiting to greet you! Without any more delay its perfect timing to unleash yourself and achieve true freedom. Not just the taught freedom- which was randomly “socialising” in a crowd where you felt alone and judged. Or earning money at a job which is not inline with your creative soul.

Now show your true colours to yourself and make peace with them all by accepting without judgement. Do you feel insufficient, ugly, scared, boring, unattractive, not clever enough,anxious, worried, rejected etc etc. Own it all and accept its ok to be this way .

So no more hiding them, hiding yourself. Set them free to be seen, liberate yourself from all the burdens.

Walk your path which ever way it seems. Its yours, its unique and beautiful. Full of excitement and joy.

Remember to truly enjoy yourself again. You are joy after all.

Last Super Moon of 2019

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Tonight, is the brightest and the last Super moon for 2019 for the world. Take your time to step outside and look up to the sky into this beauty. As you watch one of the favourite light reflecting miracles visible from earth, perhaps its time to remember to look into yourselves; into another light reflecting beauty- the self.

This last Super Moon may be the last chance this year to allow yourselves to tune into the new cosmic vibrations. This moon serves as a worldwide initiation to change. Use it wisely to be brave enough to take a leap of faith and surrender into your true, brightest self. Your brightest self is the one telling you about changing your job, your lifestyle, your relationships, letting go of the past and exploring what is new. Your true self have been telling you to explore the unknown and you have been ignoring it.

Good news is now with the effect of this Super moon, even if you like it or not you are going into the unknown. If you choose to let go and explore endless possibilities it sure will be much more fun.

Enjoy the ride and the bright light.

Güçlü Olmak 

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Güçlü ol! Güçlü olmalısın, Güçlü olmalıyım! Yanımda güçlü birine ihtiyacım var! Tüm bunlar kendi kendimize söylediğimiz, ve hatta etrafımızdakilere söylediğimiz sözler!angel_oak_tree_2017

Ne demek istiyoruz? Güçlü olmak ne demek? Yıkılma, dik dur, duygularını gösterme, ağlama öfkelenme, ne hissediyorsan hisset hepsini bastır!

Sanırım bu sonuncusu en çok demek istediğimiz şey.

Ne hissedersen hisset hepsini bastır = Güç.

Demek ki Güçlü olmayi isteme sebebimiz yeteri kadar bastırma gücüne sahip olabilmekten geçiyor.

Zaman zaman bazı konuları manalandıramadığımda doğaya bakarım ve ordan feyz alırım ne olduğunu tam görebilmek için. Mesela doğada Güç nasıl tezahür ediyor acaba? Asırlık kocaman ulu bir çınar, güçlü mü? Güçlü! Peki bu çınar neyi bastırıyor? Rüzgar çıkıyor sallaniyor, güneş çıkıyor çiçek açıyor, kar yağıyor yapraklarını döküyor sorgulamadan, bazen dalı bile kırılıyor. 4 mevsim her kosulda hiç bir şekilde kıpırdamadan kalan ve ulu olan bir çınar var mı?

Peki, Arslanlara bakalım; hayvanlar aleminin kralı. Arslan acıkınca gurur yapıp ben aç değilim aslında diyerek güçlü  durmaya mı calışıyor? Ya da çiftleşmek istediği dişi/erkek Arslana arkasını dönüp ilgilenmiyormuş gibi mi yapıyor? Ya da hayatı tehlikeye girerse ben korkmam, güçlü görünmem lazım deyip körü körüne inadından ölüme mi gidiyor?

Simdi anliyorum ki Güç tamamiyle Özgürlük ve Akıl. Özgürlük ise Cesaret işi!

Aslında Güçlü ol derken kendimize Cesur ol! Akilli ol ve yapabilirliklerini hatırla demek, karşına ne çıkarsa çıksın bunu da çözüceksin ve daha da iyi olacaksın demek istiyoruz ki net olmak net sözlemek hayatta esas oldukca, kendinizi keyifle açar ve yaşarsınız.

Bırakın güçlü olmayın, bırakın özgür olun, bırakın cesaretle ağlayın, kırılın, korkun, sevin sevilin, kazanın ve kaybedin. Kendinize; hissetmek tecrübe etmek için izin verin, güçsüz olabilme hakkını kendinize tanıyın.

Hiding

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We spend so much time judging everything and everyone around us. In time we become so efficient that we even prejudge by standardising our judgement categories so that we can quickly put everyone into these pre-made boxes.
The question is; why do we do it?  We are trying to protect our vulnerable side with this method. The fact is what we think vulnerable about us, might not even be vulnerable. This is the tricky part! We are actually judging (condemning) ourselves to be weak, powerless and vulnerable. Therefore we think these weaknesses needs protection and prejudgement boxes comes in handy for the safety. Feeling insecure we hide behind judgements so that no one sees who we really are.

Simply, we judge others because we judge ourselves! Where does it end?
The necessity to judge is simply a choice that we unconsciously make every day because that’s the cultural norm that has been loaded upon our society. The only way out from this vicious circle is to become more aware of this pattern. Next time we can choose to be brave and allow our insecurities to be seen. Perhaps we will realise that there is nothing to be afraid of.
Therefore we are stronger.
Therefore we are not judging ourselves nor others any longer.

The higher our consciousness gets, the more we can realise that life is nothing but choices. Choose your thoughts, feelings and behaviour; in return the world you create will mirror exactly what you choose.
We can choose to trust our decisions, we can choose to trust life, we can choose to realise our power, we can choose to accept our weaknesses, we can choose to see our fears and let them go. We can choose to live fully rather than hiding behind judgements.

Love

Bugra

B’Lessed To Be More

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We all want to be special. We don’t want to be ourselves as if that is not special. Special in our mind is always something else. Perfect look, perfect feeling, perfect place, perfect soul is always something else. In the mean time whilst we don’t accept ourselves, we seek acceptance and approval of others to feel special. Which in turn makes one invisible. As ironic as it is, this is the pattern we follow.

Do you not think patterns have completed their duties and it is time to break free of them? End of this month is perfect timing for breaking patterns and discovering new depths within yourselves. 31st of January is a rare occasion of the Blue Moon Total Lunar Eclipse; which means you can break your pattern/s that existed even before you were born. Same as every full moon, it’s a door opening to new beginning should you choose to allow it.

End of this month is certainly a special day and a special moon; however when you think about it the moon is not trying to be special. Its not trying to be something more than what it is. It is just being the moon as it has always been.

From a very young age we are encouraged and expected to do more and to be better. What we do or who we are as it is never seems to be sufficient. Therefore our instinct learned to work towards being more. Struggling for more leaves us short of confidence, feeling content, satisfaction and more importantly self love.

Therefore with the new energies coming with the Blue Moon, I choose to break my pattern and be less. I choose to accept “I’m perfect as I’m”. I choose ME. I’m ‘B’lessed”. For that I choose to be less to get more. Would you like to join me with making new choices?

Love.

B

 

Düşününce…

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Bazen tesir almak lazım ruhundan

Yüreğini izleyip, düşünmeden yola çıkmak

Kalemini çıkartıp yazı yazmak, denizin kokusunu alıp görüntüsünü boş vermek.

Kendinden bile sıkılırsın bazen, koyamassın hiç bir yere kendini. Bilemezsin neredesin kimsin…

İzin vermek lazım bazen halden hale girmeye, girince çıkmaya, çıkarken yaşamaya…

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Slow Down and Listen To Your Answers

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bodrumI once heard that if you are feeling lonely you need to be alone with your soul; your inner self, higher self, inner voice whichever way you would prefer to refer. At the end I decided to spend some time with myself (in this case by myself too).

Travelled slightly far away to a smaller town, still not that obsolete however a good stop over to begin with. Despite our complaints about big cities, its chaos and mixed up heavy energies; we are still addicted to it to a degree. Hence the reasoning of my first stopover.

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What was that Full Moon? and October Energies

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During the month of October new energies are continuing to make their way into our lives to trigger what is within such as fear of disappointment, fear of failure, sense of insecurity and more so sense of loneliness.

Loneliness is a feeling that doesn’t go away regardless of how busy a social agenda you have or how many friends and family members you have around you. This is a feeling that makes you feel like you are the only one, alone to do whatever there is that require your attention. You cannot rely on anyone or ask for help, perhaps it is a deeper feeling to an extent which feels that everyone expecting you to do something, achieve something, or be someone.

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Gercekler

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Gercek ve gercekligin cok da gercek olmayan bir kavram oldugunu algilamaya basladim… Gercek anda ve aninda kisinin gordugu (gorebildigi) kadari ile kayitina gecirdigi oldukca kisisel bir tecrubedir aslinda. Bundan dolayi kendi gerceginizi yani kendi gordugunuzu herkes goremez. Zaman zaman yalnizlikda kendi gerceginiz cocuklugunuzdaki gorunmez arkadasiniz gibidir. Daima yaninizda ama baska kimselere gorunmeyen bu arkadas yuzunden deli muamelesi bile gorebilirsiniz. Baska bir acidan baktiginizda, kendi yarattiginiz bir gercekliktir sizin inanmayi sectiginiz ve bu asamada baskalarini inandirmaya calismakdan da vazgecersiniz.

 

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Mutlak bir gercek var mi? Gercek kelimesinin icine baktigimizda goze ilk carpan ‘kere’ kelimesi. Kere kelimesinin manasi; kez, defa, yol dur. Aslina bakildiginda Gercek kelimesinin kodlarinda sayisiz defa olan bir varyasyon oldugu manasini gorebiliriz. Yani gercek kisinin gordugu her yol, dusundugu defalarca dusunce ve daha fazlasi. Ve bu denli degiskenli varyasyonlarin herkes tarafindan gorulmasi algilanmasi ve hatta kabul edilmesi mumkunu kolay olmayan bir olgudur.

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Umut ve Suzluk

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An’ı ve olanı algılamayınca, görmezden gelince yaşanılanların değerini; umut devreye girer! Bizi kavrayıp kaldırması için. Umutla yaşamaya başlarız ki ileride daha iyi olacağı kanısı ile… Umutla yaşamak da umutsuzluk kadar bu anı yakalayamamakdır. Umut evren tarafından okunduğu şekli ile ertelemekdir.

Umutla yarına sarılanda, anda ve anında hazir IMG_4760olmamayı okur evren. Yaşamayı, yaşama sevincini şartlı olarak sonra yaşamaya ertelemek diye adleder evren.

Yaşamın an’ında olanları kabul edermiş gibi yaparak yarından medet ummak değil midir?

Halbuki teklik ve yaşam şimdi burada olandadır. Yaşama sevinci, coşkusu anda yaşanan tecrübedir. Yargisizca kabul edilen belki üzüntü, belki korkudaki enerjiyi yok saymadan kabul etmekdir. Yaşamı cazip ve eğelenceli kılan da bu bilinmezliği değil midir? Umut ve umutsuzluğa gerek kalmadan belirsizliği yaşamak ve kontrolu bırakmak daha hafif ve eğelenceli olmaz mı? Felekden bir yaşam çalalım o zaman! Ertelemeden ışığa doğru yolculuğa devam….