We spend so much time judging everything and everyone around us. In time we become so efficient that we even prejudge by standardising our judgement categories so that we can quickly put everyone into these pre-made boxes.
The question is; why do we do it?  We are trying to protect our vulnerable side with this method. The fact is what we think vulnerable about us, might not even be vulnerable. This is the tricky part! We are actually judging (condemning) ourselves to be weak, powerless and vulnerable. Therefore we think these weaknesses needs protection and prejudgement boxes comes in handy for the safety. Feeling insecure we hide behind judgements so that no one sees who we really are.

Simply, we judge others because we judge ourselves! Where does it end?
The necessity to judge is simply a choice that we unconsciously make every day because that’s the cultural norm that has been loaded upon our society. The only way out from this vicious circle is to become more aware of this pattern. Next time we can choose to be brave and allow our insecurities to be seen. Perhaps we will realise that there is nothing to be afraid of.
Therefore we are stronger.
Therefore we are not judging ourselves nor others any longer.

The higher our consciousness gets, the more we can realise that life is nothing but choices. Choose your thoughts, feelings and behaviour; in return the world you create will mirror exactly what you choose.
We can choose to trust our decisions, we can choose to trust life, we can choose to realise our power, we can choose to accept our weaknesses, we can choose to see our fears and let them go. We can choose to live fully rather than hiding behind judgements.



B’Lessed To Be More


We all want to be special. We don’t want to be ourselves as if that is not special. Special in our mind is always something else. Perfect look, perfect feeling, perfect place, perfect soul is always something else. In the mean time whilst we don’t accept ourselves, we seek acceptance and approval of others to feel special. Which in turn makes one invisible. As ironic as it is, this is the pattern we follow.

Do you not think patterns have completed their duties and it is time to break free of them? End of this month is perfect timing for breaking patterns and discovering new depths within yourselves. 31st of January is a rare occasion of the Blue Moon Total Lunar Eclipse; which means you can break your pattern/s that existed even before you were born. Same as every full moon, it’s a door opening to new beginning should you choose to allow it.

End of this month is certainly a special day and a special moon; however when you think about it the moon is not trying to be special. Its not trying to be something more than what it is. It is just being the moon as it has always been.

From a very young age we are encouraged and expected to do more and to be better. What we do or who we are as it is never seems to be sufficient. Therefore our instinct learned to work towards being more. Struggling for more leaves us short of confidence, feeling content, satisfaction and more importantly self love.

Therefore with the new energies coming with the Blue Moon, I choose to break my pattern and be less. I choose to accept “I’m perfect as I’m”. I choose ME. I’m ‘B’lessed”. For that I choose to be less to get more. Would you like to join me with making new choices?




Slow Down and Listen To Your Answers

bodrumI once heard that if you are feeling lonely you need to be alone with your soul; your inner self, higher self, inner voice whichever way you would prefer to refer. At the end I decided to spend some time with myself (in this case by myself too).

Travelled slightly far away to a smaller town, still not that obsolete however a good stop over to begin with. Despite our complaints about big cities, its chaos and mixed up heavy energies; we are still addicted to it to a degree. Hence the reasoning of my first stopover.

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What was that Full Moon? and October Energies


During the month of October new energies are continuing to make their way into our lives to trigger what is within such as fear of disappointment, fear of failure, sense of insecurity and more so sense of loneliness.

Loneliness is a feeling that doesn’t go away regardless of how busy a social agenda you have or how many friends and family members you have around you. This is a feeling that makes you feel like you are the only one, alone to do whatever there is that require your attention. You cannot rely on anyone or ask for help, perhaps it is a deeper feeling to an extent which feels that everyone expecting you to do something, achieve something, or be someone.

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